Conversation Starters

Tap for a random conversation starter. Good for dates, dinner, family time, or getting past small talk.

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How to use it

Press Next question, tap the card, or press the space bar for a new question. Pick a category to narrow the list, or leave it on All. Questions are dealt like a shuffled deck, so you will not see a repeat until every question in the category has come up. Back steps through earlier questions, and Copy puts the current one on your clipboard.

Take turns: one person answers, then asks the same question back. The best conversations come from the follow-up questions, so keep asking why.

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Where it works best

Dates

The Dinner and dates list moves past what do you do for work and into real stories.

Family dinners

Put a phone in the middle of the table and let each person tap once. The Family table list is written for all ages.

Deeper talks

The Deep list is for close friends and partners who want to know each other better.

The full list

All 80 conversation starters

Dinner and dates (20)

  1. What is the best trip you have ever taken?
  2. What is something you have always wanted to try but haven't yet?
  3. What was the highlight of your week?
  4. What is your favorite memory from childhood?
  5. If you could have dinner with anyone, living or not, who would it be?
  6. What is a skill you wish you had?
  7. What is the best advice you have ever received?
  8. What does a perfect day look like for you?
  9. What is a place that feels like home to you?
  10. What was your favorite age so far, and why?
  11. What is something that always cheers you up?
  12. What is a movie or book that changed how you see things?
  13. What would you do if you had a whole month off?
  14. What is a tradition you love?
  15. What are you most looking forward to this year?
  16. What is the kindest thing a stranger has done for you?
  17. What is your favorite meal to cook or order?
  18. What is a goal you are working toward right now?
  19. What is something you are proud of that most people don't know?
  20. Which song always takes you back to a certain time?

Deep (20)

  1. What does a good life mean to you?
  2. What is a belief you held strongly that has changed?
  3. When do you feel most like yourself?
  4. What is a mistake that taught you something important?
  5. Who has shaped who you are the most?
  6. What would you tell your younger self?
  7. What is something you are still figuring out?
  8. What do you value most in a friendship?
  9. What is a risk you are glad you took?
  10. What does success look like to you?
  11. What are you grateful for today?
  12. What is a question you wish more people asked you?
  13. What legacy would you like to leave?
  14. What scares you a little but excites you too?
  15. How have you changed in the last five years?
  16. What is a habit that changed your life?
  17. What do you think people misunderstand about you?
  18. What is something you used to love that you have outgrown?
  19. What makes you feel at peace?
  20. If you could master one thing, what would it be?

Fun (20)

  1. If you could be any fictional character for a day, who would it be?
  2. What would your perfect pizza have on it?
  3. If animals could talk, which would be the rudest?
  4. What is the weirdest food combination you love?
  5. If you were a superhero, what would your weakness be?
  6. What would you do if you won the lottery tomorrow?
  7. What is the most useless talent you have?
  8. If you could only listen to one album for a year, which would it be?
  9. What would be the title of your autobiography?
  10. If you could shrink to the size of an ant for a day, where would you go?
  11. What is the funniest thing that happened to you this year?
  12. If you opened a restaurant, what would it serve?
  13. Which decade would you most like to live in?
  14. What is the best costume you have ever worn?
  15. If you had a theme song, what would it be?
  16. What would you name a boat?
  17. If you could instantly learn any game, which would it be?
  18. What is the strangest thing you believed as a kid?
  19. What would you put in a time capsule today?
  20. If you were a flavor of ice cream, which would you be?

Family table (20)

  1. What was the best part of your day?
  2. What is something that made you laugh today?
  3. Who did you help today, or who helped you?
  4. What is something new you learned this week?
  5. If our family had a motto, what would it be?
  6. What is your favorite family memory?
  7. Where should we go on our next family trip?
  8. What is a game we should play together this weekend?
  9. What is something you are looking forward to?
  10. If you could change one rule at home, what would it be?
  11. What is a food you want us to try cooking together?
  12. What is something kind you noticed someone do?
  13. What would you like to get better at this year?
  14. What is the best thing about our family?
  15. If you could give everyone at this table a superpower, what would it be?
  16. What was hard today, and how did you handle it?
  17. What is a story from when you were little that you love?
  18. What made you feel proud this week?
  19. What should our family's special holiday be?
  20. What is a question you want to ask everyone here?
FAQ

Frequently asked questions

What is a good conversation starter?

An open question that cannot be answered with yes or no and that most people enjoy answering, like What is the best trip you have ever taken?

How do I keep a conversation going?

Ask a follow-up about the answer you just heard: what happened next, how it felt, or why. Sharing your own answer to the same question helps too.

Are these good for kids?

The Family table list is written for kids and adults together. The other lists are clean but aimed at teens and adults.

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